•3:56 AM
Everyone has a different perspective on happiness. For all of us, happiness is when you achieve your dream/goal. And that doesn't happen overnight. One has to work hard, face the highs and lows, overcome rough paths, have a steady focus etc whatever you have to do in order to achieve that one big dream! right?
So, in other words, you are not happy till you achieve it!
Well, that's what my husband had to say when I asked him why are you sad all the time? why can't you be happy. He would say, I can be happy only when I reach the destination. I was surprised at his answer. I agree that one is happy when they accomplish their goals!
On the contrary, I hate being sad. I just can't be. Even if I couldn't achieve my goals or reach the destination, I try not to forget to put a smile on my face. I counsel myself that may be there's a better route. Instead of thinking too much and cry till the tears dry, I try to look at other options.
I always tell everyone to have an optimistic attitude! It's true, we put all our efforts to make that one dream come true. Its good to have a steady focus but that should not be the only motive.
So people, my only advice to all of you
Be happy.
Let happiness rule over you and not sadness.
Let happiness rule over you and not sadness.
And don't forget that happiness lies in the journey, not in reaching the destination.
my cousin's kid
