Author: ArChaNaR
•4:49 AM
I came across an article today in deccan chronicle newspaper which read wife must be respected. I said to myself what a timing. For a long time I was thinking to write something similar, hope I will sometime soon. But for now, all you married guys or soon to be, go ahead, read and make a note of it.

> Don’t take your wife for granted. Do compliment her when she cooks well, looks after your home well…


> Give her the respect she deserves, especially in front of others. Never tick her off or make it seem she’s an airhead.

> Don’t let your mother get on her case and make her life miserable. Petty, small issues can be ignored, but when it gets out of hand, do damage control in the beginning itself. This doesn’t mean you should be rude to your mother, but tactfully handle her and explain how important your wife is to you, just like the mother is to you and how you are the one who is very upset with the fights.

> It doesn’t matter how much or little you earn, whatever the amount, share it with your wife. This gives a sense of belonging. Never say ‘my’ money.

> Extra marital affairs are a strict no-no. It will wreck your marriage and neither will you end up being happy with the other woman. Remember, the wife is the Lakshmi of the house, you make her cry, keep her unhappy, ill-treat her… your home will never be a happy place.


A happy marriage is where both husband and wife are happy with each other.
Author: ArChaNaR
•3:56 AM
Everyone has a different perspective on happiness. For all of us, happiness is when you achieve your dream/goal. And that doesn't happen overnight. One has to work hard, face the highs and lows, overcome rough paths, have a steady focus etc whatever you have to do in order to achieve that one big dream! right?

So, in other words, you are not happy till you achieve it!


Well, that's what my husband had to say when I asked him why are you sad all the time? why can't you be happy. He would say, I can be happy only when I reach the destination. I was surprised at his answer. I agree that one is happy when they accomplish their goals!


On the contrary, I hate being sad. I just can't be. Even if I couldn't achieve my goals or reach the destination, I try not to forget to put a smile on my face. I counsel myself that may be there's a better route. Instead of thinking too much and cry till the tears dry, I try to look at other options.


I always tell everyone to have an optimistic attitude! It's true, we put all our efforts to make that one dream come true. Its good to have a steady focus but that should not be the only motive.

So people, my only advice to all of you

Be happy.
Let happiness rule over you and not sadness.
And don't forget that happiness lies in the journey, not in reaching the destination.
my cousin's kid
Author: ArChaNaR
•7:46 PM
This is exactly what I'm going through :)
Pic courtesy: Baby Center
Author: ArChaNaR
•11:27 PM



The new song krazzy from the movie Krazzy 4, an item song by shahrukh khan where he dresses up like MJ has been creating waves. Everybody seems to be going crazy, especially the kids! But only few of them understood what the lyrics are. So, for those who want to rhyme along, here are the lyrics.

p.s: you are welcome to correct if any mistakes in the lyrics
heads up yo…

krazzy with a k… thst’s the way…
say k… r… a… zee… zee… y…
do it anyway… just put the k…
in k… r… a… zee… zee… y…

break free gotta get some chutti
tod do deewaron ko
break free ab kholo muthi…
chheen lo duniya se more…

break free gotta get some chutti
tod do deewaron ko
break free ab kholo muthi…
chheen lo duniya se more…

krazzy with a k… thst’s the way…
say k… r… a… zee… zee… y…
do it anyway… just put the k…
in k… r… a… zee… zee… y…

heads up yo…

i don’t play mild…i just go wild…
like there’s no tomorrow…
so get with me… and you will see…
kya hai crazy deewano…

you gotta rule… yeh na tu bhool…
ki tu hai cool oh yaaron…
zara dil khol ke mujhko bol…
what’s in your soul batado…

so if you wanna… yeah… yeah..
dil hai deewanana… yeah… yeah…
1 and 2 and 3 and 3…
swing it with me doston…

break free gotta get some chutti
tod do deewaron ko
break free ab kholo muthi…
chheen lo duniya se more…

dont’t mess with me
coz i’m crazy
anyhting you say baby
that don’t faze me
can nobody stop me now
cause i break free
lets go wild

this world will kill…
your beating dil…
magar himmat na haaro…
you got to prove…
you got the groove…
zara taaqat dikhado…

you gotta sing…
and do your thing…
jo kehta wo dil gaao…
dikhake smile…
show me your style…
churao dil hazaron…

so if you wanna… yeah… yeah..
dil hai deewanana… yeah… yeah…
1 and 2 and 3 and 3…
swing it with me doston…

break free gotta get some chutti
tod do deewaron ko
break free ab kholo muthi…
chheen lo duniya se more…

break free gotta get some chutti
tod do deewaron ko
break free ab kholo muthi…
chheen lo duniya se more…

krazzy with a k… thst’s the way…
say k… r… a… zee… zee… y…
do it anyway… just put the k…
in k… r… a… zee… zee… y…

heads up yo
Author: ArChaNaR
•8:03 AM
I can never forget that day for it was not just a special day but a memorable one.
Too many feelings in those few minutes.
Excitement, Happiness, Fear, Anxiety, Speechless and what not!!

There are many such moments in my life but this one took my breath away. I was overwhelmed with joy. I was all blushing. My face was all red and did not even notice the tears rolling down my cheeks. There was a question mark on my face when I looked myself in the mirror. It was only after few minutes, I came to my senses, keeping fingers crossed and glanced at it once more. This time with confidence, I marched towards the living room where Uday was sitting on the floor, gazing at the laptop screen, chatting with his colleagues, working on his project work. I called him once and stood still beside the sofa like a statue not uttering another word. He was puzzled when he looked at me, but the expressions on my face (which I could not hide it) gave a hint.

It was then I uttered those two words "I'm Pregnant."

He was shocked or rather surprised I must say. He stopped typing. For those few seconds, there was pin drop silence. And the first word he said was "really?" I nodded my head in approval and replied back saying "yes."


That was it! He put his laptop aside and came towards me. We both looked at each other, hugged and sat in silence thinking about the new member, a kid (apart from Uday and me) who would change our lives!
Author: ArChaNaR
•2:43 AM

Challenges makes life interesting; overcoming it is what makes life all the more meaningful!
Author: ArChaNaR
•10:50 PM
Feminism's agenda is basic: It asks that women not be forced to 'choose' between public justice and private happiness.

- Susan Faludi, Pulitzer Prize-winning journalist, Backlash: The Undeclared War Against American Women